Category Archive: relationships

Oct 21

Friday Q&A- My husband doesn’t know I have an Eating Disorder, what should I do?

woman eating secret

Question: I’m 34 years old and have been suffering with bulimia on and off  since I was 18 years old.  I’ve been married for the past 7 years and we have two kids, my husband doesn’t know that I binge and purge. I am really good at hiding the evidence. I can go weeks sometimes …

Continue reading »

Jul 05

How to Talk to a Loved One with an Eating Disorder

  Watching someone that you love being active in their eating disorder is devastating.  It’s so painful to watch your mother, sister, wife or girlfriend (or husband, father, brother or son) either restrict their food, or binge on foods that are unhealthy for them, or to know that they’re purging in the bathroom after they’ve …

Continue reading »

Nov 14

Friday Q & A- I can't stop binge eating at night, help!

Hungry at the Refrigerator

(This weeks Friday Q&A is 48 hours late! Sorry folks) Question: Submitted via email by Theresa in Marrero, Louisiana At least once or twice a week, late at night I binge eat.  I feel as if I cannot stop and it’s everything unhealthy that I can get my hands on.  Afterwards I feel horrible about …

Continue reading »

Nov 05

Friday Q&A– How do approach someone who I think might have an eating disorder?

photo-two-girls-talking-on-dock-1

Question: Submitted via email by Ronni in Boca Raton, FL. I have a friend who I’m pretty sure is bulimic. She lives in my dorm and I know she’s bingeing and purging, but I don’t know what to do about it. I’m afraid that she’ll get mad at me if I say anything. I used …

Continue reading »

Nov 02

How to talk to your partner about your eating disorder

couplehavingserioustalk

It is so  common that someone comes into my office who is suffering terribly with bulimia or binge eating disorder but they haven’t told their boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife. There are some people who are in new relationships and don’t feel comfortable or ready to disclose that information yet. However,  there are many more people who have been …

Continue reading »

Oct 08

Friday Q&A– How do I get rid of negative emotions?

images

Question: Submitted via email by Sarah in San Francisco, CA Can you tell me how to get rid of negative emotions? Like, first off, my boyfriend and I broke up over 5 months ago, but I can’t stop thinking about  him. He doesn’t want to get back together but  I can’t stop calling him. I’ve …

Continue reading »

Aug 31

When food is the third person in your relationship

Couple_eating_lunch

Some couples are drinking buddies. That is, they spend a lot of time going to bars together, or drinking at home together and alcohol becomes a big part of their relationship.  Often these couples aren’t exactly sure what they’d do together if alcohol wasn’t accessible.  Other  couples are eating buddies. Their relationship revolves around food …

Continue reading »

Aug 23

Sex, Love, & Food

fakelove

Geneen Roth wrote a book almost 20 years ago called When Food Is Love. Of course,  this is using food when what you are really craving is love. A common theme that I’ve noticed in women with eating disorders is this  sense of unworthiness or a belief that they are not loveable. It’s incredible to …

Continue reading »

newsletter software